Survey reveals 8 out of 10 blow their budget on Black Friday and yet 56 percent struggle to discuss spending with their spouse or partner
Provo, Utah, November 22, 2016 – Each holiday season, it’s the same old story: you endure a year-long battle of meticulously balancing and budgeting your funds, only to blow your budget come Black Friday. If this form of holiday gluttony sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
New research by Joseph Grenny and David Maxfield, cofounders of VitalSmarts and the authors of the bestseller Crucial Conversations, found that 8 out of 10 people either overspend or have a spouse or partner who overspends during the holiday season, and nearly 56% say it is difficult to discuss holiday spending with their spouse or partner or avoid bringing up their concerns altogether.
Study authors Grenny and Maxfield say people fear budget conversations because they feel ill equipped to hold these sensitive discussions.
“If not approached skillfully, criticism of spending habits can come off as a personal attack,” says Grenny. “People get defensive when their intentions feel noble but another’s criticism suggests they’re out of control. The problem is that most don’t know how to hold these conversations with a squandering spouse without damaging the relationship or acting like a Scrooge.”
The study also revealed that people fear budget discussions so much that they will employ just about any tactic to avoid an unpleasant conversation on holiday spending.
The Top Six Tactics Used to Avoid Talking About Holiday Spending:
|Change or avoid the subject||60%|
|Hide price tags or what’s been spent||55%|
|Hide recent purchases||43%|
|Use separate accounts to make the purchase
Walk away from the conversation
|Tell your spouse/partner it’s your money||19%|
Grenny and Maxfield say if people apply a few simple skills for holding these crucial conversations, the discussion will be more pleasant and you might even stay on budget come next year.
Tips for Discussing Holiday Spending without Being a Scrooge:
Note to Editor: David and Joseph are available for interviews. Copies of the book and full research results are also available.
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